"Not all ways that we maintain our loyalty to our family are beneficial for us, for them, or for the rest of the world."
-T. Swan
Our mother doesn't simply give birth to us. Our soul decides to manifest itself through our mother. If we want to be here on this earthy plane with all its five-sense experiences, we need a physical body to be able to make those experiences. What precedes this event of birth is the soul contract between a mother, a father, and the child. Three souls form a contract and a union before a new life enters this planet and Earth School and form a core "development unit". Think of it as a corporate organizational chart. You and your parents are the core leadership team. Siblings and other family members are at the management level below. With each and every one of them, you have a soul contract, meaning a development contract. You don't learn just for yourself. The universe aka the divine (or god, as you may want to call it) learns through you. You ARE the universe, and therefore you are a vehicle for the universe to learn through experience, just as you do. All are interconnected.
In the Old Earth with its slow and dense frequencies, soul contracts could take a long time to fulfill. Cultural or religious programs of the Matrix were installed in us to tell us that we'd always have to stay. Shame, guilt, judgment, and fear were the main emotional components of that programming that the programming entity had installed in us.
In the New Earth, as we're getting more conscious, everything begins to be lighter and faster. As we recognize it's all a play, we begin to realize what we really are. Eternal energy, having a brief human experience in this time-space reality. Once we see through the programming and the illusion, it gets more and more fun. Bye-bye to shame, guilt, and fear. Because what's there to fear and what's there to be afraid of? In the end, we're the Scriptwriters, the Directors, and the Actors in our own movies. That goes for our family units, too. And at the core level, we're all here to learn and to find back to love. Sometimes our birth family unit doesn't hold that capacity to love as much as we do as we progress. Sometimes our birth family doesn't choose to progress as much as we do. And that is okay. That is THEIR soul plan. There is no right or wrong, there is no good or bad. There is no need for judgment. If it hurts you, work with that spot of pain inside yourself, knowing no one from outside, not even a family member, can inflict pain on you. You're inflicting it on yourself with all the expectations, viewpoints, and highly personalized desires that you hold of what family life should be life.
The truth is: Detach from it. It's really all just a play. We're all here to walk each other home, taking on different roles. Sometimes we play the mother, sometimes, the father, sometimes the son or daughter, or sometimes we play the role of a sibling - or of a childless or reproductively challenged person. It's all for learning purposes, and it's all been an experience agreed upon before you came here. So you can really relax into it.
The faster it all goes and the more conscious of it we become in the New Earth, the faster soul contracts end. And you might find breaking ties with your family becomes a lot easier and faster. Once the Karma's been cleared and the soul contract and learning experience have been fulfilled, there's no need to artificially extend the contract - unless your souls really want to. You won't even have to actively decide this. In truth, it will be decided for you based on the frequency that you're holding and emitting. If it's no longer in resonance with your surroundings and family members, there will be no more fusion and the bond will end.
Be prepared for it, because this will happen a lot faster now while we're raising consciousness and while we're letting go of old religious and cultural programming. Whatever happens, one thing I want to say to you: Let go with love. Be grateful for the lessons. Celebrate the ending. The ending of a contract might not even involve a conversation. That's what we did in the Old Earth. In the New Earth, we communicate more and more via frequencies. Words are frequencies, but feelings are even stronger frequencies. The more we all learn to feel what feels good to our nervous systems, the more we'll easily float in and out of contracts with love and appreciation, without the drama and separation that we've gotten so used to in the Old Earth.
Yes, it means opening ourselves up to a software update and reboot.
Yes, it means growing a lot of self-confidence.
And yes, it means pealing back all of those layers of illusion and false bonds that do not represent the purest form of love, the true state that we're returning home to, and that will be found within, and no longer be forced to be found just within a family unit.
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