When you identify with your children, you impose your desires on them, your aversions on them, your expectations on them, your unfulfilled dreams upon them, your beliefs upon them, and so on.
But I hope you felt the heaviness of just that burden while you were reading this tiny list.
And the worst part is, we call this love. And society at large calls it love.
-T. Swan
The quality of our relationship with ourselves will always determine the quality of our relationships with others. When we know what and who we are in truth and that each is on their soul journey, we won't identify with others on an ego basis, but we will identify with everyone and everything based on love. When we allow ourselves to fulfill our desires and dreams, we are fulfilled and won't need to (ab)use others to fulfill them for us. When we alchemize the negative charge that comes with aversions, expectations, and fear, we are free ... free to love truthfully and unconditionally.
Every relationship starts and ends with one thing: The relationship that you're able to cultivate with yourself.
HERE in this Audio Program, we're currently going through a 3-months period to heal and innerstand relationships. I'll be uploading more content this week while I'm traveling. It's currently in German, but I might release it in English in the near future. Much love.
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