Back in 2019, I was in California studying under DavidJi to become a "Masters of Wisdom and Meditation Teacher". David said something very profound and realistic one day to the spiritual seekers trying to be "good" all the time: "You cannot steal anyone's bottoms".
I've seen it in myself, and I see it in others, mainly women. We often think we know what's best for other people who are in agony. And as a result of that, we try to coach or over-exhaust ourselves by picking them up. We try to "help". But that's neither helpful nor is it the way to resolve another person's pain. The truth is that we're free beings who can exercise free will, so another person's state of agony is not ours to carry nor to fix.
You don't know what path somebody else is on.
You don't know what they've agreed to come here to learn.
You don't know what you don't know about the other person.
As part of my Metaphysical Consultations, I've read hundreds of Astro charts, Gene Keys Charts, and Human Design charts and they all carry a profound message about our path, our learnings, our traumas, and our path to healing. We're all unique expressions of star seeds, and we're all here to learn different things.
Some of us are here to learn how to become a conscious parent and to heal transgenerational childhood trauma by doing that. Some of us are here to learn about ourselves and who we truly are to navigate life, starting from self-knowledge. Some are here to learn about career and to empower themselves in that area. Some are here to learn about health and to turn the related imbalances around. Some are here to practice how to be in a conscious and nourishing relationship - may it be business or romance. The path is as unique as the lessons.
And as the bottom moments are nothing but a mirror, reflecting back to us what we don't want and that we're not yet a vibrational match to what we want (not with our mind, but with our way of being), that's why there is so much transformational power in bottoms. They're milestones, meant to make you, not break you.
So be empathetic, hold space. But don't take anyone's bottoms away, because you're taking valuable experiences away from them that they've signed up for to experience contrast to heal, and to begin to embody the new reality they're here to learn to create.
For women, this is especially hard because of the nourishing qualities that are part of our genetic makeup. Please innerstand that if you're depleting yourself by being "the helper", you're playing an active part in the drama triangle, and it will eventually backfire. By trying to "help" you'll be depleting yourself, and you'll eventually get frustrated and turn into the villain. Because here's the thing: You can't really help. You can hold a space of unconditional love and acceptance, but you simply can't help because you cannot interfere with another person's soul path and lessons. By doing that, you're committing a spiritual crime, making the other person a victim, because you'll be assuming that the other person is disempowered to help themselves. The truth is that we're all made of the same divine spark, and our main task in life is to rediscover that and to learn how to manipulate energies that make us feel disempowered, poor, helpless, or sick. How does another person feel once you make them a victim, taking away from their creativity? And even if the other person still decides to be a victim and is looking for reassuring co-creators to affirm exactly that false belief about themselves - do you want to make yourself complicit in taking someone's divine powers away? The result will be frustrating for both. The victim will eventually feel persecuted and turn into the villain. That's the secret dynamic of the drama triangle.
Please innerstand - even if this may sound harsh because you are not yet familiar with the Secret Laws of the Cosmos - that you're making an effort to take a person's divinity away by steeling their bottoms.
Again: Don't be selfish, we're all connected on this web, especially during this time when we're liberating ourselves from so many old conditionings and disbeliefs, as we're stepping into the divine light and are therefore recognizing our own shadows, both individually and collectively, more than during any other time on this planet. It's part of the process. And the current process and energies require all of us to face exactly that one thing that we've been trying to deny, suppress, and disown, sometimes we're doing it for generations back.
So hold space, be accepting, and love without conditions. But don't steal anyone's bottoms that are such a significant part of this divine learning experience and pre-agreed soul contract. Know that we're all going through it right now in one way or the other. This is happening for a reason. It is part of the divine cosmic order, shifting consciousness from a low vibrational state back into a higher state. And where there's more light, there will be more shadow, until we've healed and transmuted it by looking at it curiously and lovingly.
It may seem like a lonely job to do. But it is not. Rest assured that it is a collective purging process right now. And each does the job on their own. Because the lessons are as unique as we are, and the feelings want to be felt. As we're moving into the light, have no fear. We're embedded in a cosmic order. Nothing is random, it all has meaning. Focus on yourself, don't use other peoples' lessons or dramas to distract you from doing YOUR shadow and joy work. Stay on YOUR path. The cosmos is never mean, it is loving and kind. But we cannot move on carrying all that transgenerational trauma and programming that has gotten the planet and all of us to the state we're currently in.
So don't steal anyone's bottoms. Don't avoid your own bottoms. Be kind to yourself. Remain open and curious. But never lose focus. The work we're doing right now is the biggest job that's ever been done on this planet. It's a rise and shift in consciousness, the creation of a new divine order. Stay on the path. Do you. Feel all the feels. Love. Witness. Follow the invitation to transmute everything that arises into the highest order. You can get guidance. But you have to do this powerful and crucial work for yourself.
After the bottom moment, if you've truly learned how to manipulate energy, comes the quantum jump. So don't hold on to anyone or anything that weighs you down right now.
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