You want a partner, not a project!

Let me be very clear: You want a partner, not a project. Let me repeat: You want a partner, not a project. Again: You want a partner, not a project. And I don't if it's a business or romantic partner. You truly want to love and cherish yourself enough to have a true partner. Nothing is more damaging to the soul and your creations than getting stuck in a hero/victim or villain/victim position of the drama triangle. Remember: Every victim and every hero will eventually become the villain ... You want a creation triangle.

You can find the complete lesson on these dynamics here as a "Masterclass". It should actually be taught in schools, before any first date, or before adults get married or enter a business partnership together.

You want to be with someone compatible, you don't want to wander the endless depths of the desert of compromise.

You want to be present in times of need, but you are neither a rehabilitation center nor are you a therapist. You want somebody who understands the harmony and balance point of breathing in and out, of giving and taking, of acting and resting. In a nutshell, you want someone balanced.

You want to enjoy, explore, be present with each other, have open communication, and create trust and the perfect mirror for each other's growth. You want to live, laugh, and love by giving the present of love and presence. You want to get your priorities right. But you don't want to fix, change, parent, or raise another person. It's not your job and the violation of individual soul journeys. You don't get in the way of another soul journey - it's a law.

You want someone who prioritizes their physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and energetic health as much as you do. You want someone who you can appreciate physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually (because spirit is ultimately life's vision and so much more important than goals), and energetically (because energy never lies and tells all the stories).

You want someone who is on the same level of consciousness, and who has a similar frequency and level of energy. Because you want harmony. That includes financials because giving and taking and the level of possibility should be harmonious and on a similar level, no matter the gender. Because if it's not, it's often toxic.

You want someone who celebrates you for loving yourself, who knows how important it is to love oneself first so that the cup is overflowing and ready for selfless, joyous giving of love. You want someone who practices self-love and self-prioritization, too. So that you get to love and prioritize each other.

To sum it up: You want a partner - not a project.